Energy Vampires Part 1: How To Recognize Them And Who They Are...
Do you know a situation when after even a short conversation with a person you are tired, empty and upset? And when you already have finished contact with that person you still feel that your energy is going away?
They are a very difficult type of people who are able to suck out all your good vibes, leaving you frustrated. You are empty and tired while that person is happy and strong. It doesn’t matter if it was a personal contact or telephone call.
Lots of sick people can take your energy and health, even if they don’t do it consciously. Also, some old people are able to take your youth power and energy. If you have contact with these type of people every day, it could lead you to emotional exhaustion and eventually to depression.
How to realize that somebody takes your energy and doesn’t give you anything back?
You don’t feel happiness, you are pessimistic, you lose your sense of humor
You cannot enjoy your life
You are vulnerable to illness or you have many diseases, especially in the urinary and reproductive system
You are tired even if don’t do anything
You sleep more than usual
If you have some of these symptoms, you should think about the people around you. Which of them could be an energy vampire?
We all are surrounded by so-called energy pools, which presence we don’t feel but feel their absence.
We have to get a piece of energy from these pools, which is not so easy because it doesn’t come free to us. We have to use our energy channels, to make them bigger and brighter and to let this energy flow comes inside of us. This procedure is also complicated because some energy vampires can catch the energy that we managed to get from the energy pool.
How do energy vampires do that? How can they take someone’s foreign power?
There are 3 types of energy vampires:
A person comes to you with an easy neutral question. They may look into your eyes very attentively, tries to touch your shoulder or to hold your hand for a second. They may smile, nod, ask more questions (they could be even private), make you fake compliments. This person is such a good psychologist and has empathy, they feel your mood and adjusts to your temper. Their goal is to come inside your soul, to find your weaknesses or to know your secrets. And if you are not a strong and stable person and can’t be a little bit rude sometimes, unfortunately, you’ll feed this person with your energy.
As you know, manipulation is nothing else but playing on your sense of guilt. We all have this sense of guilt but someone can just hide it deep in his soul and never mention it. But someone lives with guilt constantly and can’t forget about that. Energy vampires are searching for that type of people who cannot hide this sense of guilt and are ready to talk about it. Vampires act primitively: they slightly open an unpleasant topic talking to a weak person and this person tells everything immediately. By talking about his guilt people are giving their energy.
Rude and aggressive, the so-called provoker or instigator.
This type of vampires doesn’t think about the strategy of talking to people. They offend, jeer and outrage people, they can put pressure on you or extort something. It doesn’t matter for provokers which reaction they’ll get from you. Each reaction accepts ignorance is appropriate for the energy vampire. If you are rude back to him that’s good, if you cry or you are scared - that’s much better for them. They'll take their energy anyway.
Next week: I’ll tell you how people become energy vampires and how can you protect yourself and your family from this negative attack.